Hi mentallyunstable86. Welcome to Psych Central. Sorry you have had trouble finding an effective med. This article lists some options
Bipolar Disorder Treatment | Psych Central

this may be of interest
Some Ideas for Handling Treatment-Resistant Bipolar Disorder | Psych Central

And more about ECT
https://psychcentral.com/lib/risks-a...ffects-of-ect/

I have heard that single sided ECT can be better for retaining and retraining memories than double sided ECT. Ask your doc about that.

I also combine a high protein low carb diet, exercise, yoga and meditation to help me stay stable.