I don't know about other countries but here in Ireland only a psychologist or psychiatrist can diagnose. Therapists may suspect that you have an illlness or personality disorder but they can't diagnose you. I think it was wrong if your therapist to send information to your doctor / pdoc without telling you first. That's very unethical. I would have to bring that up with her and ask to see her notes. How do feel now that you have been diagnosed?