No,i can't leave, it's mostly my house, and i love it. I also love my husband, i just wish that he wouldn't treat me so bad with his words, and last, my brother doesn't have any where to go. All 3 of us are disabled, my husband just had major lumbar back surgery, he has 3 plates, 2 rods, and 6 screws, and last year we had to go to Florida to get him, 2 days before we got there he had a major fall bc he was drunk, about a week and a half to two weeks he started having major problems with the use of his arms, and legs. we thought it was bc of his drinking, but one evening he lost bowl control, and i had to clean him up. The next morning we took him to the ER, They checked him out, and found a couple cervical disc that needed to be replaced, and a splnal cord injury. The next morning he had emergency surgery. It has been over a year now, and he still has prob. with his arms, and legs. He is one abusers when i was young, and now he can't keep his remarks to him self. That leaves me with no way out, and i am to the extreme nonconfrontational.