seriosly 27? woah you kinda made a record!
i hope you don`t mind me saying that!

i respect you i am jsut kinda shocked because I ONCE WAS SURE that i would never have it b4 marriege. but at the age of 18 i got in contact with the wrong kind of a guy who used my innocese and trust and abused me....i didn`t really want to do that. but i was idna too much "going wit the other" than with myself. typical lack of self reliance.

HOW MUCH I REGRET IT
i don`t know if it could be causual sex but it was horriblw and after that i couldn`t sleep at night and had physical memories. it was kidna awhen i remember it it sort of starts almost physically hert. even now it can come.

i totally agree with you about the danger about sex like that. not with the shame hting thoguh. we are a part of nature. think of it. God created us like that and if we need it we should have it.

we shoudl have it in a way that is COMFORTABEL for us.

i just went to a party and there was a guy-goess waht? YONGER than i am and trying to get me into it!! it took me an hour to explain....hehe