Update - I rung the second gyno this morning when their office opened and explained my situation to his receptionist. She has booked me in for tomorrow morning and said if surgery needed it will be done as a matter of priority and she said if it gets any worse go straight to ER. She is getting my medical file sent across and it just sounds so professional and so kind. All I have to do is last another day. It was just that first gyno with her 'look up your procedure and consider your options on the website' that stuffed me up. She made me pay $1600 up front for the operation I cancelled (it will take a week to get the money back!) and do my own hospital admissions online at home as well as buy my own Mirena to bring in for surgery. Why pay when you have to do it all yourself. I think this second gyno will take care of me and help me they are already organising me. I just want to say to anyone reading this forum go seek a second opinion!