((((hugs)))))
I am sorry that you have been suffering for so long, Iwanttojoin.

Unfortunately, we sometimes go through horrible, unimaginable events. Thankfully, there are wonderful people out there ~ doctors, nurses, etc that work extra-hard because they care. I hope that this 2nd OB/Gyn is one of the latter type. You deserve decent care in a very timely manner.
You're in my thoughts....