Hello. Please help me. I am a woman and I have a friend (woman too) who lived abroad for many years. In the mean time we saw each other a few times, on vacation episodes, fun adventures. Now she's back and what seemed to be nice turned out horrible. She flirts with all men around, including her own friend's husbands to the point it affects the couples: either they separate or fight. It is almost like wherever she is, there is trouble. Coincidently, I just met the man who is my dream partner. The thought of having the trouble woman around just pierced my peace, so I stepped back from her, said I don't feel we are very much in synchrony andthat it would be good sometime away but she would write back saying she's hurt....

so I just stopped reading her messages because I thought she was disrespecting my time. She also stopped messaging. Now, after 6 months, she wrote me a long email, attacking me in every way possible. She is accusing me of not being with her when" she most needs it" (because she just returned from abroad and feels lonely and also because many people are mad at her). She is actually getting me to feel guilty, but at the same time I know I have the right to choose who I want to spend time with. I want to be free! I want to be away from her AND stop feeling guilt. Please help me!