We don't live together but we live in the same city and we still see each other. We have separate social lives for the most part, which is probably the only thing keeping me sane. But he knows some of my friends and occasionally he will hang out with us. It is more so the knowledge that IF we were ever to meet the same people, he would put me to shame with his superior social skills. Honestlty, I think I have this deeply held notion that since we are brothers and grew up together, we should be roughly equal in achievments. The idea of him being so much more desirable than me just seems wrong.