Yet again, I am confused, you definitely have a gift as I am not easily confused.

Tell me, where is this "Value Scale" you are getting your data from and what kind of variables are we talking?

To clarify: The people who value your brother (according to you as I have not heard from them) do they value his social skills and have his number on speed dial for a party, or will they take a bullet for him, should the need arise?

And if it's the former? Wouldn't you rather cultivate relationships that reflect the latter?
Just trying to ascertain where you're coming from.

I know this has been said in one way or another in probably each of your threads, but Shadix, it comes down to this...

You CANNOT control what other people think, believe or do, the only person you can control is you. Accepting your differences and shortfalls, and then improving what can be improved, is the only way to contentment.
This path you're on, leads no where, you're chasing pavements.
All that will accomplish is adding to your anger and resentment.

I just don't get it, you're obviously miserable, but reject the pathway to freedom from your misery.
Maybe misery is a safe space for you? idk, I'm not your T.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, if I was you I would be sick and tired of it all and ready to eat toilet paper if I thought it would help me.