So this is rich! You know we've got 6 people coming over for Thanksgiving and last night H says to me "So what's Claudia doing for Thanksgiving?" Claudia is a woman who was hired the same day I was and we became friends and have done a few things together outside of work. She's originally from Germany so has no family here, but has plenty of friends and a new boyfriend. I tell him "I don't know, probably something with her boyfriend" and H goes "Oh that's right she has a boyfriend now. But we'll have plenty of food so you should ask her to come over. It's the RIGHT thing to do!" Can you believe that? He's basically scolding me because I didn't invite her over! He's become Mr. Do Gooder by inviting anyone who wants to come over because "It's not a big deal". He even said a customer at work found out what he was doing and gave him a $25 Visa gift card to go towards the food. Holy crap! So you've even convinced a customer that you're being so gracious by inviting everyone over for Thanksgiving?? Then he's like getting all serious about how we're going to rearrange the living room and add some chairs and says there'll probably be a lot of people just sitting on the floor. Then says "I just want it to be fun". I say sarcastically "Fun???" He goes "Yes I want people to enjoy themselves". Big fat duh! I thought you'd want it to be a somber and sad time! It's like he's all irritated that I'm not inviting anyone over and I'm not excited about it. Sorry. This was all your doing. You promised me Thanksgiving out and now we're hosting half a dozen people and you're upset that I haven't invited anyone!