Oh because then I'm a bad person and he'll make me feel horrible about saying no for the next week. He'll find anyway to rub it in my face. Probably start getting all sarcastic and say "We'll I'm going to take a shower but I figured I should run it by you first to see if that's okay with you" or "I'm going to be 5 minutes late tonight but figured I should tell you so you don't send the police out to look for me". He ALWAYS turns it around on me.