My husband and I are moving at least 30 minutes away from civilization this summer. My best friend came to me in tears yesterday protesting this. She says my husband hasn't yet shown himself competent in caring for me and has failed to redeem himself. For those of you who know me, my husband and I have seemingly fully recovered. My best friend seems to think this move is almost his subjugation of me although I do not perceive any manipulation; he just wants to move closer to work. She is afraid I will be all alone with no one to take care of me and I will end up dead or completely psychotic. She thinks my husband is both unwilling and incapable of helping me. She asked me when he last went to an appointment and what he thought of the doctor I've been seeing for greater than half a year (he's never met or asked about her). Help me process this please.