I like Trippin .... can not fathom for the life of me why in world you stay with this man?!?!!?

He is inviting people without asking you. He also is talking to his daughter about moving in and that has you twisted in a knot upset also.

Maybe consider this as the "last supper " cook it and maybe you will actually enjoy being around other people than just you're husband , maybe he doesn't want to be around just you and he is inviting these people so they can help be a buffer so it might deter you and him all this nit picking you both seem to do all the time, so much resentment on both your parts it " seems"

I also think Lefty has a great plan. Great plan indeed.