Does your T have an achilles heel? Something he/she is especially bad at in therapy?
Well, I think you all know how much I love my T. He is just the greatest and has been so helpful and healing to me.
But if there is one thing he is bad at, it is the phone! I rarely call him, and when I do, it is usually for very businesslike reasons--rescheduling, etc. More often than not, he does not return my call. It makes me feel rejected and anxious, like he doesn't like me anymore.

Most recently, at my session Monday, he wanted, very strongly, for me to set up a couples session for me and my husband, because we are having a problem that is really affecting our forward progress. He said for me to call him or email him to set up an appointment if my H agreed. So on Wednesday, I emailed him with the news that H had agreed to come for a session, and could we talk about his availability for a session? This is most easily done by phone so I asked him to call me and was very flexible on the time. Now, it is 4 days later. Has T called me? No, of course not. This effing couples session was his effing idea. He told me we need to have this before our next legal meeting so we can function. And can he be bothered to call to set up an appointment? No. If I call him, he is always in session, so it doesn't make sense for me to call him on this as then we just do phone tag. Why doesn't he call me?
This is his achilles heel: returning phone calls. I mean, sheesh, the whole thing was his idea!
Does your T have an achilles heel?