Sunny, have you ever directly asked him about this?

My T sort of sucks at leaving phone messages. He has left a couple that have been really empathic and wonderful, but most of the time, his messages can be pretty bland. I told him this. "Leaving voicemails isn't exactly your strong point, hmmmm?" Those couple great ones that he left actually make the situation worse because then I end up comparing all of the other voicemails to those-- why can't he always leave a message like that??