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Nov 21, 2016, 08:22 PM
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Look, people are hurt by rejection, so yeah, you are going to hurt him no matter what. All you can do is be honest and be quick. The longer you let it go on, the more attached he will get.
I would just be honest and concise. Say that you don't feel like you have much in common, that the drive is too far and too expensive for you, and you want to pursue other things. You can also mention that you aren't that invested in the polyamorous thing and would prefer a 1:1 relationship.
Do not mention the lack of attraction, that will be excessively hurtful to him.
Good luck,
seesaw
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