I love my husband but we can be spending time two of us any time. On thanksgiving we want people. And I cook the whole thing, I hate potlucks. Me and my brother take turns hosting hoilidays. You only have to cook turkey! Honestly you two don't have good relationship yet you want to spend holidays just two of you? What for? And it's obvious he doesn't want just you two!

Life is too short. You two are miserable! Why stay?