I have 2 children. 1 is charming and witty in a classical sense. The other is autistic and charming and witty in a less classical sense but just as meaningful way. We can't all we a sex symbol or swimsuit model ya know? Not everyone has a genius IQ or knows what to say and is a social genius. We go through life just fine knowing that some people will get all the money, all the fame and perhaps more happiness than us. But perhaps not. Happiness is easier when you have everything but it's more meaningful when you work towards it. You can work on becoming more social and naturally skilled. You can make improvements if you wish. But you might be able to get further by accepting your limitations and even embracing them as you learn more about the interesting person you are and stop focusing on how interesting other people might be. Everyone has there own problems at the end of the day.