He is getting medical care, and had home health care. Medically he is to the point where he can take care of himself. As far as mentally, he will never get help, he likes his life the way it is, and anything i would say would just cause me problens. He is so much like my parents were, and will probably die in the same way they did. My parents were both alcoholics, and died a few years ago; My dad was bed ridden, but still drinking. My oldest brother, this one that lives with us, and a younger sister, took care of my parents at home before they passed away.