Dear MickeyCheeky, I am not a genius in regards to relationships but here is my advice. Keep your eyes on the prize and don't waste your energy on people who don't seem to care about you. You are a beautiful person with a wonderful future ahead of you. Concentrate on finding a career and being successful at it. Entanglement in relationships at to young of an age can just prevent you from achieving your goals. For instance, because I was nearly 30 before I had my first child, H and I were able to save money and pay off our entire mortgage before my 30th B-day (I concentrated on work, not friends between my 24th and 29th B-days). Your high school friends may just not be "your type" in personality/interests/goals. I know it hurts but life will change as you get older and how many friends you had in high school (grades 9-12 in the US) becomes very unimportant. Trust me---there is nothing wrong with you. There is no reason to worry about this. You are a good person who has an awesome future in front of you. I know you do!