Your answers always seem to state that globally you are judged. Thing is if you are in groups where people don't accept you, regardless of the reason: social skills, attractiveness, weight, race ... or anything else, the quick answer to this, is to find different people, accepting people that don't care about whatever it is that seems to be judged in you.
If you find that no matter where you go, that you seem to have trouble with people, the common denominator is you. If no matter what types of groups you find, you end up in the same situation then the only thing that can change is you. Sitting around worrying and being upset about how you're not accepted is just going to spiral you out of control and not be productive. If you keep beating your head against the wall because you're doing the same things over and over expecting a different response you're only going to succeed in being more frustrated.
Work on your skills, your behaviors, your thinking. It is not up to the world to accept us, it is up to us to find acceptance and our place. This is personal responsibility, no one is obligated to like or accept you.
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