I give my T little gifts whenever I feel the time is right. I've bought her little candy at easter, wrote her a poem and gave her a glass cross necklace on our "year anniversary", my little alters have made her things, and brought her candy they know she likes.
Last Christmas, I wasn't around. I had flown back to Chicago to spend time with the 'family' so I didn't see her really. This year, I don't know. Now I'm gonna stress out thinking about it!