Yes. Very Virgo.
I try VERY hard to keep my judgments and opinions to myself in real life. Apart from my husband, I kind of live a double life because I know my approach can be intense and unlikable. I gotta wonder if I should just start censoring myself around him and see where that goes? Hold back and be a more neutral party instead of always saying what I think.

The thing is, he used to LOVE it about me. He always told me that I brought out the best in him with my life demands and expectations I set for myself, but all of a sudden I'm like a piece of **** to him. He's told me until he met me he never knew he'd be capable of getting certain things or accomplishing certain things, but my attitude (which now revolts him) is what encouraged him to do so.