I agree with what Ruh Roh said also. I think you want more from the relationship than she is willing to give. She actually sounds like all the therapists I have had. As time went by they got looser boundaries though. Yours might. I don't know. All mine usually started the session by what do you want to talk about today, rarely followed up on homework, never asked questions about how I am doing. I learned to be assertive sometimes though. You might have to also.