The last two nights I have been having dinner with another inpatient. the first was a fluke but last night he searched me out. He is not my usual physical type but I am very attracted to him and we shared many interests.

He is a paramedic on leave due to bad PTSD form work. He was the guy who went to the accidents and comforted the other paramedics but there was no one to comfort him. It is really wrong. Now he is being judged at work as weak as he could not take the heat. I men what empathetic, loving, caring human being could be ok after seeing so much carnage for so long and not be touched?

Anyways, now I am looking for him everywhere I go. Think I have a crush on him and if my spider-senses are right he likes me too. Has anyone started a relationship with a person they met IP? My ex-husband did and his relationship is going strong after 17 months. Any things to be careful about? Any advice?