Thanks so much everyone for the great feedback. We had breakfast together this morning but it was pretty low key. A little talk on meds but mostly other random stuff. I did disclose I have bipolar so expect him to hide from me from now on. He doesn't seem judgemental, its juts my paranoia.

As advised I am going to take this slow while somehow working out hoe to get his number without giving the game away. Hopefully he feels the same and will ask me first. This is so weird and new to me a i have been single for a year and even that relationship was dead before it begun as I was not attracted to him. He was just such a nice guy but I learnt that that isn't enough for a long-term relationship. The attraction needs to be there.

I am probably making something out of nothing, maybe he felt bad seeing me eat alone, idk. I do know he is single an recently divorced (as am I so can't judge that). He has good, rational plans for the future and seems like a man who ill follow through.

I feel like a giddy school girl. If nothing happens between us I will have at least felt i have definitely moved ob from my marriage and am ready to find the right man.