That's great about looking into another therapist.

To clarify: In my view, a therapist like that is not going to talk about the relationship or lack of relationship. They are only going to talk about how you feel--about her or anyone else in your life that you bring up. That's an approach some therapists take (although, not many do it that way anymore--at least, they are not this strict about it).

I'm with you on this. I don't want a therapist who won't share anything at all about herself. I would hate that. You have a right to find a therapist who doesn't do that.