I'm very attracted to more people when I am hypomanic.
There more "electricity" in the air! Lol!
That said, I am married.
I did not meet my husband IP; however, he also lives with BP-II. We'd happened to cross each other's paths and have been together since (over 20 years). He's very stable/reliable and the nicest person I know. We are very devoted to one another's well-being. We were first, and remain, excellent friends -- first and foremost.
I met him when I was definitely not looking for a new relationship.
We were quickly inseparable. Still are.
One just never knows what may transpire.

WC