It's a tough spot to be in isn't it LuLu?

Unfortunately, some people have addictive traits and/or just plain don't care about themselves or the law for that matter.

As much as it hurts to think of breaking up, you must be true to yourself and your ideals. Staying with him will only bring on lots of hate and discontent should he continue his pot smoking. Then you will loose sight of your ideals and feel guilty and angry at not only him, but yourself as well. IMO, your ideals are the most important thing here.

If he is so insensitive to you that he gives you the ulitmatum of accept his pot smoking or break up, it is pretty clear where his thoughts lie hon. They are more about himself than anything else.....*sigh*

Be true to yourself hon.....for you are the one who has to live with you all the time. I wish you well!

Hugsss
sabby