Dragon...you have done some difficult and wonderful work on yourself. I know you are excited about the changes you have made and you want so much to prove too your wife how different you are. I think that is totally awesome.

Septi hit on some things that I've said before in a post to you....it will take action and time for your wife to work through her issues with you. Your words are wonderful....now your actions, over a period of time will be the defining part of all this.

No one is tired of your postings. We have seen you work through your issues with such love and respect for yourself and your family. Those are great things for others to read and see and to support you as well.

The other side to all this is obviously your wife. I'm praying that she still loves you and is gun shy at the moment. But, the reality could also be that she isn't in a spot right now to accept you yet. I think it's important for you to be prepared for the long haul. Sometimes folks just can't let things go quickly...it takes them time and it takes our patience and consistancy to help them feel trust once again.

You and your family are in my prayers Dragon. Well wishes for strength, patience and compassion for not only your wife, but yourself as well.

Hugss
sabby