Now she wants all the money I earn or get me to spend all my money because she is suspicious of what I would do with my money.

She has been passive aggressive towards me, and keeps me from doing things I like, like archery. She has been rejecting me for a very long time now.

She has been suspecting me for no reason, but not any more.

I keep her at a distance and try to do other things, and accomplished quite well recently. Me and some friends of mine have won a couple of Hackathons recently. But that does not lift my spirit since I do not get to have any intimacy with my wife and that is bothering me.