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Originally Posted by divine1966
I am sorry for being blunt, but you come across extremely shallow. I'd say even high school boys look at things beyond looks and girl being agreeable. This is middle school stuff.
I wonder if the issue is shallowness not your lack of charisma. You don't seem to value any human qualities besides looks and agreeableness in women and wit and charisma in men. There is more to life. Print your threads on here and make a therapy appointment please.
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Reread my post:
"No, there lots of other things that factor in. It is really complex actually and there is no real formula. Charisma maybe sometimes makes a girl more appealing I suppose. However, physical attractiveness and agreeableness seem to be much bigger factors for me."
I made it pretty clear it is not just looks and agreeableness and there are other factors as well. It is more so a chemistry thing, it is there with some girls and not there with others. But yes physical attractiveness and agreeableness are pretty important. I do not want to be with a girl I am not physically attracted to and I do not want to be with a girl who is mean. I don't think that is shallow, I think it is pretty reasonable.