I might interpret someone talking to me about my "life direction" as an invite to talk (as an expression of his/her interest)?

Maybe your dad does know all you have shared with your mom?
Do you think you dad may have been trying to open an exchange with you?

You can ask him if he's interested in what you need from him/them?

It's tough to start a conversation, yet sometimes we can inquire about what another is saying to us -- and may learn they want to know more.

You know your parents best.


WC