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Originally Posted by seesaw
Why would being attracted to someone for their personality be shallow? We don't call that shallow because that's not what shallow is. Shallow is about being superficial, such as liking someone only for their looks. If you like someone be caused they are fun to be around and have a great sense of humor, that is by definition not shallow.
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I disagree. Charisma is something that appears on the surface. It has little to do with your inner self. Those people are usually just quicker at reacting and expressing their thoughts, they do not necessarily have more depth.
I agree that it is shallow to be attracted to only looks. But I think it is also shallow to be attracted to only charisma. For example I know a girl who had a crush on my brother when they had absolutely nothing in common.
With that said, most people are shallow to some extent. Especially young people.