GAH! I don't even know how to answer that question right now. I don't even want to think about it. He was emotionally abusive, for the most part, I didn't have a BRAIN left by the time I finally got enough spirit mustered up to get the heck out of there. There was a few physical things too, but don't really wanna talk about that. Aside from the smashing, slashing things and punching holes in walls, doors, etc. brandishing huge knives (though he only hurt him self with them) I told him real early on that "Nobody hits me," and he got the message. He knew that if he pulled that crap with me, I was out, that was the ONE thing I wouldn't stand for. Unfortunately I just took everything else. Never again. Nobody gets that many chances now.