Had dinner with him last night and lunch today but was to shy to ask for a number. He gives me no reason to believe he likes me and I just want to get to know him at this point. He did say he was in until a least Tuesday so hopefully will chat more before then. He is just fascinating to talk to. We agree on many things and respectfully disagree on others. I can see he is suffering due to bad PTSD due to being a paramedic and later being the at incident counsellor for paramedics but there was no one checking on him. What an awful system! Now he is being treated as 'weak' by his employer for breaking down. Sorry, but this is f*****!!!