Shad is you are not going to find any woman here who agrees with your observations, ALL Have said they disagree with what you've concluded and yet you refuse to hear it, which is fine.
I just wonder what you want to achieve.
Let's assume you are right. Then what is even the point in bringing it up. If you are right, then you are doomed for all time.
If you are wrong, you won't accept it, so you are doomed for all time.

I plead that you take what you have written here and show it to your T. Or you should just accept your life is over at 28 and continue in your self fulfilling prophecy.

The ridiculous thing is, that your obviously intelligent, articulate and have the capacity to think things through, yet you seem unable to accept any other perspective. I could argue with you all day long but it would be inane , and actually I usually enjoy a guy I can debate with, it keeps me on my toes, and makes me think. In this case though I rather sadly think it would be pointless because there needs to be movement, but in all the pages of this thread we are no futher forward.

I wish you all the best Shadix, I hope you take the time to get some help, and find some friends you feel put into you as much as you feel you would put into them. Take care.