So with The Skeezyks on this. Its about pushing through and keeping on and not giving in to what you really really want. I found that being a mum simply forced me to do what was required including putting a smile on my face and sometimes you surprise yourself with actually loving what you experience. Once the kids get older and don't need you anymore , I have found my doggies to help me in the same way - they need and so it does not matter how awful I feel and they reward me with unconditional love the uncanny ability to make me smile and laugh. Children then dogs - that's the best advice I can give you.