I never understand people saying things like "women like this or that", "men are this way or that way". None of it is true. Everyone is different. It's better to get out there and learn about how diverse people are rather than based ones opinion on preconceived notion, or internet and lack of experience. There are plenty of shallow simple people and plenty of deep thinking ones, of both genders. One can find all kinds. If you seek shallow girls you'll find them and if you want deep thinking ones you'll find them too. Some people like extrovert and some really do not. Etc

Get out there. Stop reading fake statistics on the internet.

It's very different when people speak of experience and when they speak of hypothetical situations or general statistics.