So a friend of mine, this guy who has been seeing/not seeing me (it's a very convoluted story) recently asked for 48 hours of no communication from me (I am really very chatty in fairness)

He got about 30. After that he told me that he didn't want anything to do with me he said and i quote

"I also don't want to have anything to do with you. You answered
some important questiions for me this weekend and I am not
interested in any kind of relationship with you. I asked for 48
hours and I got texts. I asked myself if I could see myself with
you but it's been way to frusterating and hurtful".

Literally 3 days before that he was asking me to tie him up in the bedroom.

I feel like he set a trap for me expecting me to fail and when I fell in to it he used that as an excuse to walk away from me in a hurtful way and blame me for it so that it wasn't his fault.

Am i off here? He has walked in and out of my life in various ways a few times over the last four months. Always doing enough to have me believe there is a possibility of us getting together never so much that he can be blamed for anything except leading me on and always finding an excuse to pull back.