please DON'T QUOTE THIS POST. i'm so scared and lost. the last time i saw my boyfriend, he was happy, we had a casual conversation about a movie.

the next morning, he's gone. he leaves me a long message saying he needs time to himself and that it's about him, not me. he's spent nearly a thousand dollars in this weekend alone.

he didn't tell his employer anything, and now they're going to fire him but they can't even contact him. his phone's not in use, he's blocked me on all social media. i contacted his parents, and they say he's been locked in his room all weekend, not seeing anyone or speaking to anyone.

if we'd had a fight or if i'd done something wrong, i'd know. but this is so unlike him. his mom even said his breath smelled of smoke, but he doesn't smoke...

what's happening to him? i'm so scared. he's like a completely different person.