I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years. We see each other 2 to 3 days a week. He is very kind, loving, caring and patient. I'm very perceptive and have an Accurate "gut feeling".
I don't believe my boyfriend ever cheated or ever would.

But recently he told me that he'd started using a new barber. He had been going to the same woman for haircuts for years. Then I noticed they were no longer FB friends. I felt like something was off so I started investigating.

So I learned there was not a new barber. He was still going to get. I looked at cell phone records and she txt or called him a lot for someone that gets one haircut a month.

I confronted him about it all. He said he didn't know why he lied. He said he thought I might be jealous. He said he unfriended her because he didn't want it to cause us problems. He said the txt and calls were just about a haircut. I pointed out she txt him three days one week, after he had got a haircut. He said she is goofy. He said there was nothing going on. She was just a woman that cut his hair.

I never gave him any reason to think I was jealous. He mentioned this new (fictitious) barber several times in the last few months. he really wanted me to believe this woman was no longer in his life.

He's begging me to forgive him for lying and give him another chance. I explained it's not about the lie, it's about his involvement with this woman. He gets upset and says there wasn't any involvement,