I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years. We see each other 2 to 3 days a week. He is very kind, loving, caring and patient.

I'm very perceptive and my gut feeling has always been accurate. I found out that my boyfriend manipulated me by his lies and deceit.

He has been getting his haircut by the same woman for years. A few months ago he told me he went to new barber and mentioned it a lot. Then I noticed he had unfriended her on FB. After a little research I found out that there wasn't a new barber. That he never stopped going to her. He said he didn't know why he lied, then he said he thought I might be jealous. He said he unfriended her because he thought it might cause us problems. I looked at his cell phone records and she contacted him too much for someone that gets one haircut a month. He said it was regarding a haircut. I pointed out he had got a haircut on Friday and she txt him the following Monday, Wednesday and Friday. He said she was goofy.

I never gave him a reason to make him think I was jealous. He said nothing was going on between them. She just cut his hair. I ask why the ruse? He said he's racked his brain and he doesn't know why. He's begged for forgiveness for lying and ask for another chance to prove he is the man I fell in love with. I've told him repeatedly that it's not just the lie. He betrayed me. His lack of respect and loyalty to me proved she was very important to him.

Everybody lies for some reason. I would actually understand if he lied , if I was crazy jealous. But that's not the case here. I love him and don't want to lose him. But how do I move past forward when I can't stop wondering what was really going on?