If you don't like it, you don't like it. You can't change him or he you. You accept him, just not his behavior :-) If he's not willing to change this behavior, (after claiming to be "clean" which no one would do in the first place if they didn't feel the "need"?) then it doesn't bode well for the future of the relationship? I'd breakup.
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