There is a saying "when you know a person with autism, you know a person with autism". Meaning every person with ASD is different and if you know one, you can't assume how others are . Some are very social and outgoing and some are reserved, some have hard time with communication and some don't. Etc etc that's is what I do for a living. I've met many many people with ASD in the course of my career. I've never met two they were alike. I also highly recommend do not self diagnose