Hello TC121: I'm sorry you & your partner are experiencing this difficulty. Hopefully coming here to PC can be of some comfort & support to you during this difficult time. Sometimes simply writing about one's concerns can be of help. And PC can be a great place to do that.

Anyway, since this is your first post here on PC... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting!