We live 140 miles apart. So it takes two hours one way, so I can't just pop in anytime,
He works 4 days a week and I work 5. He will stay with me most of the time on his off days.
We are going relocate half way in order to keep our jobs.

I have a daughter still at home in college. I won't move until she goes off to school. He will move before me. So this isn't anything that will happen in less than a year.