I have learned the hard way to never make "plans" ... if you make no promises you can not be " blamed " when you can not keep them .... I made quite a few people mad over plans changed at the last min ... at not being dependable .... so I isolate myself ....

it is very hard for others to understand that ... they just do not understand ... and most never will ....

sorry for your pain ... I wish I could make it go away ... but alas I can not ...

be strong friend ....