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maybe if i knew more of the issues in the relationship, i'd know more what to say. motivation is a huge issue...motivation for what, everything? also, you've tried talking...what have been the prior responses from hubby?
relationship woes can take a person under quickly. my hubby and i split up for three whole months 11 years ago, but are now doing well. we had to work hard!
if you can't post the specifics...maybe just generalize? look forward to hearing from you soon

i think you're just fab!
be safe,
kimmydawn