Can I offer you an observation that maybe you should consider in your personal relations with people? You have a tendency to come across in your posts as having a very large chip on your shoulder. You complain about the maturity level of the people you work with, yet you write about other people in a very gossipy, hostile, and condescending manner, you call people names, and you sound extremely immature yourself. Note: I'm not saying you "are" those things, but you do come across that way through your descriptions. I wonder if you are coming across that way to people around you, they are sensing judgment and hostility; and therefore, they are keeping their distance.
I don't say these things to be rude, but to perhaps help you see what others may be picking up on about you that seems to create constant problems with your coworkers. You are going to have to deal with customer and coworkers and managers no matter where you go to work, so I hope you will have better luck in not personalizing everything that goes on with others.
NONE of us get along with every person we work with. There will ALWAYS be groups of workers who group together, usually several different groups. The trick is to not take it personally if you aren't part of "that" group. Just find a few people you do get along with well, and learn to let the rest roll off your back. Otherwise, you'll be miserable pretty much anywhere you work.
Best of luck on your new job venture. Hope it works better for you.
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